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Exploring Patterns & Self Potential

In-depth reflective notes on modern psychometrics, BaZi, Zi Wei Dou Shu, and behavioral science to understand how you make decisions.

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Relationship Chemistry6 November 2026

Attachment Styles Are Not a Verdict: Reading Relationship Patterns Without Labeling Each Other

Anxious and avoidant get thrown around online as insults. Here is where the theory comes from, what research says about change, and how to break the chase and withdraw loop.

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Relationship Chemistry29 Oktober 2026

Zheng Yuan in BaZi: Why You Attract People but Struggle to Commit

Easy to date, hard to stay? BaZi reads attraction and commitment in two different places: the Peach Blossom star and the zheng yuan signals in your day pillar.

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